In friendship, many get develop, many get in love. At first they call themselves as Bro and Sis but eventually when it gets older and farther it turns to be a love relationship. A love that should be ignored? Or better be real to it? Oh, no! It’s so complicated.
One time, I had a colleague that later on became my best-friend. Ironically, we became best of friends because I used to court her however she busted me but we became close together and claim ourselves as buddies. Over days, weeks, and months that passed by, the usual friendship develops into more serious and concern relationship. But I couldn’t express my feelings to her though I knew what she feels.
Yes, you really love your friends but loving someone intimately is another thing. It would mean commitment and responsibility to its results. And friendship may be the excellent jump-start toward a good and deeper relationship in the future. But how about when she or he only sees you as a friend not a lover.
In the end, it’s you who decide if you want him or her to be lifetime partner or to be the best of friends. For me it’s just a matter of time and patience. Who would not get develop to someone who’s very caring and loving friend? Who would no get in love to someone that hugs and kisses you all the time?